HOW TO DEAL WITH DISAPPOINTMENT


As humans, disappointments will always come up. People will certainly hurt you. We’ll always disappoint each other. We’ll always have mishaps. Your best friends will let you down in a way you never imagined. Even your family will not always meet your expectations. Disappointments are a part of life and they are inevitable cause you’re dealing with humans who could be unpredictable. Now until we see them as a part of life, we will always keep getting hurt and disgruntled about people and life itself. No one is perfect but also no one is imperfect which means there is no one who has the incapability to be perfect but perfection is something we all strive to attain. We all work towards perfection but how many of us actually get there? You may have been disappointed by someone but check your life too, you’ll find out you have also disappointed someone before sometimes even worse. You know why? It’s because you’re also human and chances are you’re gonna disappoint more people in your life and as far as you keep living among humans, you’ll always be disappointed. The truth is, disappointment gives us a whole new perception about life which means lessons are learnt.

Now you might wanna ask, how do we deal with disappointments? The best way to deal with them is just to expect them. Now when you expect disappointments to happen, you actually don’t get too disappointed when it comes cause you expected it and so you know how to deal with it. We can’t stop them from happening but we can deal with it when it comes and the only way to do that is by just seeing it as a phase and like all phases, they always pass. You can only provide solutions based on the knowledge you have about it. So if I don’t know disappointments are a part of life and they are supposed to be expected then I will always keep getting hurt and angry at life. So when I get disappointed by people, I’m disappointed in the attitude not the person and I just know they will always come around and then we can all move on with our lives. If you don’t know this, then you’ll only be disappointed in yourself cause like they say ‘information is power’ so when I don’t know I have no power over it. Expecting it takes away the grudges but trying to prevent it only brings more of it cause we’re humans and we shouldn’t feel bad about it. This is Danny world…

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