On hot topic today, the discourse is on whether your fiancée's decision on not wanting to have a child is a deal breaker for you with Africa as a reference point. You've probably been dating this girl or guy for some years now and all of a sudden, you're about to get married and he/she … Continue reading “I DON’T WANT TO HAVE A CHILD…” DO YOU CALL OFF THE WEDDING?
Over the years, Society has made us believe that being married is the zenith of any “human.” Well, mostly, I believe the word now is “women.” The notion, especially in these parts is, as a woman, you should be married before you hit 30. Well, these days, 25 seems to be the benchmark. The success of … Continue reading MARRIAGE AS THE PINNACLE
A popular saying goes, team work always make the dream work. It tells you that two heads are better than one. It means you can't always do it alone except you become a team player. The success of the team is the success of every player. This is what a lot of us have failed … Continue reading RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM
A lot of couples today experience a great deal of "unenthuisiam" in their relationships and most times can't explain why that happens. Sometimes it brings the base of the relationship to question. Sometimes the couple can't explain why the relationship seem to be losing its steam. You get to hear things like "I don't seem … Continue reading HOW TO REIGNITE THE SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
A lot of people seem to believe that pushing so hard brings about the result they so desire. People believe that when you work towards a desire so hard then the result must always be positive. But with relationships, it's a different ball game. Relationships have got dynamics of its own that goes beyond the … Continue reading FINDING LOVE
They say relationships are complicated. Well, so is life at times. It's complicated because you're dealing with people who have got a different mindset towards things so conflict of interest is imminent. But there is always a place for balancing. Now a lot of couples have issues with who makes the FIRST MOVE? I've come … Continue reading THE FIRST MOVE
Some people say love for the right reasons. I think we all love for one reason. We only love because it's what our hearts feel not what we choose to feel. Love is unconditional. She didn't fall in love with you because she chose to. She fell in love with you because she felt so. … Continue reading IS LOVE REALLY A CHOICE?
Sometimes we all want to try out adventures regardless of the risk involved. The truth is, sometimes we get caught up in those adventures and really never come out of it. Now you'd ask, why get into a canoe without a paddle? Why tread the path of a lion when you don't even have the … Continue reading DOUBLE-DATING IN RELATIONSHIPS
There are two major reasons why relationships fail in our world today. The first is CHEATING while the second is MONEY. We're gonna be looking at the first reason which is CHEATING and how it affects relationships as well as why couples engage in cheating. Cheating is not being faithful to your spouse. Cheating is … Continue reading FIVE (5) REASONS WHY COUPLES CHEAT
A lot of people always ask the question when is the right time to be in a relationship? Some even ask if it's right to be in a relationship at all? It's a question I want to answer today. Now what people fail to see is that there is actually no right time for a … Continue reading WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME?