“I DON’T WANT TO HAVE A CHILD…” DO YOU CALL OFF THE WEDDING?

On hot topic today, the discourse is on whether your fiancée's decision on not wanting to have a child is a deal breaker for you with Africa as a reference point. You've probably been dating this girl or guy for some years now and all of a sudden, you're about to get married and he/she … Continue reading “I DON’T WANT TO HAVE A CHILD…” DO YOU CALL OFF THE WEDDING?

MARRIAGE AS THE PINNACLE

Over the years, Society  has made us believe that being married is the zenith of any “human.” Well, mostly, I believe the word now is “women.” The notion, especially in these parts is, as a woman, you should be married before you hit 30. Well, these days, 25 seems to be the benchmark. The success of … Continue reading MARRIAGE AS THE PINNACLE

RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM

A popular saying goes, team work always make the dream work. It tells you that two heads are better than one. It means you can't always do it alone except you become a team player. The success of the team is the success of every player. This is what a lot of us have failed … Continue reading RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM

HOW TO REIGNITE THE SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

A lot of couples today experience a great deal of "unenthuisiam" in their relationships and most times can't explain why that happens. Sometimes it brings the base of the relationship to question. Sometimes the couple can't explain why the relationship seem to be losing its steam. You get to hear things like "I don't seem … Continue reading HOW TO REIGNITE THE SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

FINDING LOVE

A lot of people seem to believe that pushing so hard brings about the result they so desire. People believe that when you work towards a desire so hard then the result must always be positive. But with relationships, it's a different ball game. Relationships have got dynamics of its own that goes beyond the … Continue reading FINDING LOVE

THE FIRST MOVE

They say relationships are complicated. Well, so is life at times. It's complicated because you're dealing with people who have got a different mindset towards things so conflict of interest is imminent. But there is always a place for balancing. Now a lot of couples have issues with who makes the FIRST MOVE? I've come … Continue reading THE FIRST MOVE

IS LOVE REALLY A CHOICE?

Some people say love for the right reasons. I think we all love for one reason. We only love because it's what our hearts feel not what we choose to feel. Love is unconditional. She didn't fall in love with you because she chose to. She fell in love with you because she felt so. … Continue reading IS LOVE REALLY A CHOICE?