WHO ARE YOUR FRIENDS?

So many people keep asking who a true friend is or what friendship actually means? Here is what Danny thinks. A friend is someone who understands your past believes in your future and accepts you just the way you are. A true friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you forget the words. True friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to forget. Real friends are those who lift you up when your heart’s wings forget how to fly. They can grow separately but can never grow apart. Best friends can be the farthest away but the fattest when you call. A friend is the one who has got your back in the good times and bad times. The ones who can tell you when you’re going the wrong way and support you when you’re heading right. Do you have these kind of friends? A question I want you to ponder on a little. Sometimes those we call our friends are really not our friends. Sometimes those we call our ‘friends’ are really never there when you need them. Sometimes friends are closer than family. Sometimes those we call our ‘friends’ are only there when the going is good but disappear when the going gets tough. Sometimes your best friends are those you never seem to learn anything from but they are always constant in your life always there when you need them. I say stick with those people cause at the end of the day that’s what friendship is all about. Some friends don’t seem to have any positive impact on you but you do have on them. I say use your discretion cause if you leave that person he/she may go back to his bad lifestyle and you won’t be saving a life or just leave that friend cause you’re not improving…it’s a call you have to make. Have you sat down and asked yourself what kind of friends do I want to have? Or what kind of friends are my even keeping? Are they really friends? Some friends are just there to party, clubbing, perhaps a one night stand and all you guys seem to talk about is men/women and sex. Now check that friendship; you find out that you’re actually getting worse by the day. Is that how you want to continue in life? Yeah I thought so too… Sometimes we fail to choose our friends instead everyone who comes your way suddenly becomes your friend and then you find yourself in the wrong company. Ever asked yourself am I with the right set of people?

Now for some people they just know these are just the people I need in my life. For some they have to keep asking for a long time cause they are not sure they are hanging with the right set of people. Like I said earlier, your true friends are those who understands your past, believes in your future and accepts you just the way you are. If your friends don’t understand where you’re coming from or believe in where you’re going to or criticize you all the time then those people are not your friends. The right set of people in your life are those who possess these qualities. Friends are important they play a big part in our lives. Sometimes your friends are closer than family cause you get to tell them everything you’re feeling without any fear of a sanction. Some friends are more than friends you feel like you’ve known them all your life. A good friend is one is able to call it what it is and nothing else. A good friend doesn’t paint it he calls it what it is. A good friend is always there to guide you through the right part when you’re losing it. A true friend is not just anyone but the one who is always constant. So I ask again who are your friends? Keep your mind on that and give yourself an answer then you can decipher properly who your friends are today. This is Danny world and you’re welcome.