Communication is one thing some couples struggle with in their relationships and because of this lack of communication there is this disconnection that comes in and break such relationships. Sometimes one party is willing but the other is not forth coming or a situation where both are willing but expressing is a problem then that’s not a relationship. Generally, relationships form a basis for interaction so when there is no interaction so why then do you call it a relationship? We’re going to be looking at why this happens and see how to better our communication skills in relationships today on Danny world.
Now being in a relationship alone is enough, you’ve gotta be able to create that connection between you and your other half and to do that you must communicate you must be able to talk. The only way to resolve this is this; you’ve gotta understand your partner what he likes or she likes or doesn’t like or things he likes to talk about or places he/she loves to visit just something that lightens your partner. Now once you know what excites your partner then your discussions should be channeled towards that. By the time you do that, your partner will always want to be around you cause he/she enjoys such discussions. The question is how many of us really know much about our partners? Well you’ve got your work cut out right there. Find out and stop being a bore in your relationship.
Secondly, avoid misunderstanding situations and just maybe you get into a misunderstanding try to settle as quick as possible. Misunderstanding cause a breach in communication and you don’t communicate the existence of such a relationship comes in question. When both of you are able to make decisions together it boost the bond in the relationship cause then you guys get to do things together
Communication helps improve our decisions we make in relationships cause both of you are able to contribute to whatever ideas the other party has and see to the success of it.
Communication is life itself and we stop to talk then this whole world wouldn’t be existing and so it applies in relationships. Be the listening type especially for the guys cause the ladies would always have something to say. Do all these and your relationship won’t be a bore. This is Danny world we’re talking we’re sharing and we’re learning. Let’s talk.
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Hey Danny, u̶̲̥̅̊ said somefin i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the concluding abt ‘guys bn good listeners bcos the ladies always have something to say’….. But I stand to say MY RELATIONSHIP seems different. My man always seems to be the one wiv somefin to say always, while most times i’m speechless….so I do more of the listening. This isn’t a problem though. I’m just gettn worried… He seems to be the one that L♡̷̴̬̩̃̊υ̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥s more i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ our relationship(he shows it more) and I jez sEem to be the one daiz ‘just there’….u̶̲̥̅̊ knw. I L♡̷̴̬̩̃̊υ̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ him! Like very much but it jez doesn’t freak ♏ε̲̣̣̣̥ lyk et does to him always. I really don’t know what to call this. Is it bcos I have bn i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ more relationships than him? Or what can we exactly call this? And the fact that when he wants ♏ε̲̣̣̣̥ to say sweet things to him, I sorta have to think first, like I don’t jez seem to have my free way around words like he does. I’m getting all worried about myself. 😦
Hmmm good thing u asked Lisa. Honey, you don’t have a problem and neither do your man. Most times the lady does the talking and the guy does the listening but the most important thing is for someone to talk and someone to listen. In your case, I see you as one who doesn’t talk often but your man does which is a balance in relationships. He doesn’t love you more than you do love him it’s just that you feel you don’t offer more than he does. You want to do more but you feel he overshadows those things you want to do. My advice is you guys should talk about this. Perhaps when you tell him how you feel about this then you guys can reach a consensus. It’s nothing Lisa, you being worried you’re not doing enough is makes you good enough and your man is lucky to have you.
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